help?

[firebird!]

I havent been.. myself lately. Some of my roleplay friends may have noticed. I've been ignoring roleplays, pms.. all of it. I've been super moody and pretty much on edge. I'd just like to give you all an explanation and I'd like to ask for some help. And I'd like to say that Im very, very sorry for everything I might have said/done.

My girlfriend and I broke up about two/three months ago. Not too long ago I found out she is with someone else.. of course, my first reaction is blow up on her. (Not the same time we were dating, btw, afterwards, but I couldnt let go.) I said some pretty mean things about her and her new partner, and its really got me down. We've been getting into fights every day. I'd really like to tell her Im sorry, but I have no idea how to say it. It has to be special, because I know if I were her the normal sorry wouldnt work at all, 'specially after what I said to her. I'd really like to keep her as a friend, atleast.. any help is greatly appreciated. -firebird;

[*~Trent~*]

First off...

your a DUDE?!


Next, maybe something like what i did in this picture:



I am not saying learn sorry in eight languages... no... I am! teehee!

[firebird!]

err, no.. Im a girl..

and hun, you can re-open that werewolf roleplay if you want.

[.Savy.]

First of all, *hugs*

Break-ups are tough.. especially if they end on a bad note..
Unfortunately it seems things may not get patched up. How long were you dating for?
I think you and I are alot alike, if I see something I don't like; I say it. Which has gotten me into trouble in the past, obliviously seeing your ex with a new partner sent you over the edge a little.

Want my honest opinion?
Cut all ties with her, delete her number, her FB and whatever else. You need to take some personal time right now, and do things that YOU like. Get a good group of friends together and go camping, or something

[firebird!]

yes.. I do speak my mind :/
I've gotten into so much trouble over it.
I might send you a pm later :]

We were only dating for roughly three weeks or so, but she was my friend long before that.

I think that is a good idea. Give us both time to cool off, then talk like civilized people.

[sandtiger]

I cannot say I've had a breakup, because technically, I've never had a relationship like that. But Mon Ami, I hope you get better fairly soon! Things get tough sometimes! *Hugs!* And ding Trent, I was wanting to use a picture like that, but nevermind now! But really FiRE, calm down and feel better!

[*~Trent~*]

[.Savy.]

Yah for sure Fire,
Feel free to give me a PM anytime. I've had my fair share of relationships, my partner and I have been together for a year and some, it's definetly not easy. We especially have been working at it lately..

I know its going to be even harder because you were friends in the beginning, but unfortunately this is sometimes the way it goes

[firebird!]

You guys have helped so much ^-^

[shaggydoggy]

Ooh! Sweetheart!

I am so sorry. Break ups are harsh, trust me, I know. I'm in my second year of High School, so I've been through some toughies.

It will be beter, I promise you. You need some time alone, away from each other, but you don't nessisaray have to throw away all your memeries. You guys can still be friends, I'm sure!

From a person, with quite a bit of experience, you both probably said some things you didn't mean. You need some time to cool off. Perhaps, when you get another partner, or when your over the break- up stage, you guys could get together again. Talk it out, and become friends. That is, if you want to.

I hoped this helped Honey.

ShaggyDoggy

[Auxatia]

aux thinks not talking to her is the equivalent of ignoring a really hot guy at the beach. [;

its not like they're constantly fighting.. and they do talk like civilized people the majority of the time. and if neither of them agrees to it, it wouldn't be such a good solution, imo.

[firebird!]

thanks shaggs ;]

all of these are helpful. but I'd still like us to talk..
we've had some great memories, from 13 hours long conversations
to waking eachother up at six in the morning to talk about our dreams.
I would explain these, but they'd take a long time to type. (aux+fire=♥)

[Vitani]

Awww hun *hugs and offers cookies*

Everyones already pretty much said everything so I won't repeat it...

But time can be a good healer for things like these. Take a deep breath, take a step back, and let the dust settle....

In time...She will probably be more welcoming towards your apology. Maybe even towards being friends again.

Best of luck

[SomebodyDude]

Awww... It'll be ok Fire!

I have seen some really tough break-ups the worst was probably my best friends though cause I was involed in it....[Ok so I am a girl just to letcha know]

SO basically my best friend was going out with this wonderful guy for like 5 months... Then she started to like this guy I knew from kindergarten and I knew he was a .....*******.....

So needless to say her and her boyfriend broke up.... And then she started to go out with the other guy.... >.<

I really regret this now but I wouldn't even speak to her because I had told her over and over agian that the guy was a jerk! I had told her and all his previous girfriends had told her the truth that he hadn't had a girlfriend for more than 2 weeks.....

But of course she didn't listen and I wouldn't talk to her.... BUT in the end her parents made her break up with him..... And we are now friends agian...We got lucky...

[ChocolateGal]

Everyone has these times FB, don't blame yourself for it. You are a wonderful person, and obviously you are too good for her, and by breaking up with her, your back on the field again!

My best advice is to have your chin up, and be proud to be who you are. However, probably a letter would be my best idea, and tell her (and her new partner) how very sorry you are. Perhaps some chocolates, or some flowers? If she doesn't accept that, then you are too good for her?

Many hugs and best wishes
Choco