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Heather
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Posted: Sun Apr 25, 2010 11:49 am Post subject: |
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Trust me, it doesn't matter if you did something wrong to deserve the stuff with your parents. I know, it's hard, but it may be better if they're apart. My dad is much happier this way and things are starting to look brighter for my mother. Yes, I feel horrible about what happened and I know that you may feel you just want to die right now but it'll get better. Until then though, happy wishes to you! You'll be missed!! |
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ChocolateGal
Joined: 29 Jul 2007 Posts: 1868
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Posted: Sun Apr 25, 2010 6:56 pm Post subject: |
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Cosmosxx wrote: | You wouldn't want them to stay together and be unhappy would you? |
Nicely put Cos
I'm not sure of the answer to this one, as I'd have to guess your age. Have you ever had a boyfriend? A very serious one, who you'd stay with for a year or two, both madly in love. I'm guessing not, 'cause that's for like people in Uni/Last years of High School. Well, at the end of the relationship, things might start to fall apart, and the two would move away from each other. In your situation, your parents have loved each other for many years, and then the marriage had to end as well, and your stuck in the middle. It's gonna be tough sweetie, but you can't stop love.
As others have said, it's not your fault. Think about it, why would your parents split up because of you? One of them would be stuck with you. If they honestly didn't like you, they would have chucked you onto the streets, not started fighting with each other. There would be other reasons, but it's absolutely not you. If I was stuck in your position, I'd be sad and wouldn't want them to break up, but I'd get to see both of them, and I'd be happy.
It's for the best, even though we don't like it.
If you seriously want to them to stay with each other, I suggest organising a few things. Perhaps a candlelit dinner? Or their favourite movie/song playing in the house?
Hope this helps sweetie!
*Big hugs*
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Vitani
Joined: 28 Nov 2006 Posts: 6665
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Posted: Sun Apr 25, 2010 8:45 pm Post subject: |
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Oh sweetie....
*hugs*
Come talk to me. |
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shaggydoggy
Joined: 30 Jun 2009 Posts: 15113
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Posted: Mon Apr 26, 2010 3:05 pm Post subject: |
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Aww! Thank you all so much for support! I can't even begin to explain my graitute. I actually posted this the day I found out, so I was under a lot of emotional stress. My mum and dad promised that they'd try their best to work things out. Because of all your support I've decided it's best to come on once or twice a week. I honestly probably couldn't make it through this tough time without you guys. I feel I owe it to you to stay here.Thank you all so much!!
*Huggles*
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wolfgirl159357
Joined: 07 Aug 2009 Posts: 19967
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Posted: Mon Apr 26, 2010 3:26 pm Post subject: |
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yay *does the happy dance* |
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Cowgirls Rule
Joined: 29 Apr 2007 Posts: 10721
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Posted: Mon Apr 26, 2010 5:17 pm Post subject: |
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Yay! I can't live without my best RPing buddy! If you need to talk about anything, just PM me. |
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Heather
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Posted: Mon Apr 26, 2010 5:27 pm Post subject: |
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If you have anything you wanna let it, PM me. I've been through it and I know how difficult it is. Don't worry! Things get better! |
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Vitani
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Posted: Mon Apr 26, 2010 9:42 pm Post subject: |
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I'm so glad hun
Remember what I said ok? PM me anytime, about anything. |
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Fire Opal
Joined: 03 Jun 2007 Posts: 3050
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Posted: Mon Apr 26, 2010 10:57 pm Post subject: |
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I'm not any expert on the matter, but I'm totally open to talking with you if you ever feel the need. Just keep on trusting in the Lord, Shags! |
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barbaro800
Joined: 04 Apr 2010 Posts: 1856
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Posted: Tue Apr 27, 2010 3:05 pm Post subject: |
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D: Please don't quit. You're really nice and you contribute to a lottt of the RPs.
I'm really sorry about your parents divorce btw. |
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SisKate
Joined: 25 Sep 2007 Posts: 1837
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Posted: Tue Apr 27, 2010 5:36 pm Post subject: |
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Will miss you : D
Take care, hun!
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