Bad things in 3's?

Cosmosxx · Joined: 28 Apr 2009 Posts: 1228

I'm waiting for the third...

On Sunday I found out I had no weekend job, and no notice.

Then tonight my dad died. He took a fit during the night and his heart stopped for 10 mins, he was put on a life support machine, and was in a coma. We went up at 7 after hearing he was there.. got into see him at about 7.30, it was horrible. He and my mother hadn't lived together for 20 odd years, but I was still very close to him, and we visited each other all the time. He died at 8.15, and we were all round his bed. I got to kiss him on the cheek, and was to upset to hang around after he was gone....

The killer is, he was only 43.

I feel like I'm in a daze. I don't have my mother or much family....so it's nice to talk about it somewhere.

Peace guys....

.Savy. · Joined: 04 Feb 2010 Posts: 466

Cos, sweetie. Please if I can do anything please let me know.. I recently lost a good family friend, a second dad to me really. It's extremely tough Sad

Please get your emotions out (feel free to PM me!!), it will feel much better in the long time, tell us some of the great times you spent with your dad? Hiking trip or going riding?!

- Your Pal, Sav

RZ · Joined: 14 Feb 2009 Posts: 513

(((((((((((((((((((((((((((hug))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

I am so sorry

Queso · Joined: 11 Mar 2007 Posts: 3597

*hugs* I'm so sorry. If you want someone to talk to you can pm me.

Drmchaser · Joined: 23 May 2007 Posts: 2372

OMG I am so sorry to hear that, you and your family will be in my prayers and if you want to talk you have my messenger ID. I am usually online.

Alabama · Site Admin Joined: 13 Aug 2008 Posts: 383

I'm so sorry, Cosmos. Don't fret about things happening in threes, looking for more bad will only guarantee it'll happen. Worry and deal with the aweful things already going on.

SomebodyDude · Joined: 15 Aug 2009 Posts: 4997

Cosmos..... wow.... I.... But... It... I....

I....I.... Am just so sorry. Crying or Very sad

*Hugs*

Have you seen finding Nemo? [It will lead to something trust me.]

*Huggles* If you want to talk PM me. I was only five when my grandpa died. Loved him so much.

Peace Out. ---~**SD**~

P.S. DON'T THINK ABOUT BAD THINGS. THEY JUST MAKE IT WORSE.

wolfgirl159357 · Joined: 07 Aug 2009 Posts: 19967

awww Cos. i hope you feel better if ya ever want someone to talk to i am open and just remember they get worse before they get better, hope that third thing doesnt come.

Rusty · Joined: 28 Nov 2006 Posts: 421

I am so sorry Cos. You WILL get thru it. Try to remember the good things, the happy times...and count your blessings. It has been a year (on Good Friday) since I lost my Mom and almost daily a random fun memory pops in my head. Yeah, I still want to call her or see her, but the good memories will have to do.

Life is SO unfair sometimes...

Rusty

Misty Glen · Joined: 01 Nov 2007 Posts: 1393

Oh geeze... that's terrible news. I just don't know what to say. It seems inadequate to say I hope things get better soon, 'cos the death of a parent is not something anyone ever gets over. All I can say is that I understand what you're going through, and if you need support you can rest assured that all your SBF friends are just a click away. We're here, and we will help, even if we can't offer anything more than a shoulder to cry on.

Cosmosxx · Joined: 28 Apr 2009 Posts: 1228

Thanks everyone. You guys are awesome....

Crying or Very sad

*Hugs*

I found out he was asking my auntie how I was the day before he died, so even though we hadn't been on the best of terms for a few months, he still thought about me right up until his death.

Smile

Cowgirls Rule · Joined: 29 Apr 2007 Posts: 10721

I'm so sorry Cos. Just keep your head high and I'm sure good things are bound to happen.

SisKate · Joined: 25 Sep 2007 Posts: 1837

I am so incredibly sorry. That is horrible and happens to the kindest and most amazing people, and my thoughts and prayers are with you in this hard time. I am here for you, and understand your devestation. It makes me sick to hear such sad things happen, and I am empathetic for you.

*BIG hug to Cos* I am your friend, and am here to give you something to lean on. Take care, sweetheart,

SisKate

Vitani · Joined: 28 Nov 2006 Posts: 6665

Oh Cos, you poor darling....

I don't need to say anything...You know how things are between us.

*hugs warmly*

Cosmosxx · Joined: 28 Apr 2009 Posts: 1228

Guys, it's the funeral on Friday and I feel like I'm having a meltdown......

I'm being 'forced' to go in one of the family cars, and my OH will be going separately....he's the only person I have, and I feel like I can't get through it without him....

Also my mum has been told she can't go....even although they have been separated since I was like 2, so separated more than 20 years, they maintained a good friendly relationship until his death, and I am livid that she feels that she can't go and pay her respects.... *Grrr*

Went out for clothes for it today and couldn't stop crying....I don't know how I'll do it..... Don't want to go, can't face it...

Needing some reassurance...

*Hugs everyone*

*A sad, depressed Cha... :'(*