...Your breakup storie(s)

[Little Red]

What's the worst break up that you ever had, and what made it that bad? After a few people respond, I'll tell my story.

[milon]

I don't think breakups are ever pretty if you actually meant something to the other person..

[RZ]

you really dont want to know. Sufficient to say it involved massive amounts of lying, infidelity, and physical, mental & emotional abuse

probably why i have major trust issues

[Fawn]

Worst break up for me was.. i was totally in love with the guy (still am, deep down) and i moved away because I promised myself that I would move up north and make lots of money when i was young. my family was always very, very poor when i was younger so i vowed that i would never be in the same position as my mother. i was pretty convinced that money bought happiness. so i moved up north, and our relationship didnt last the long distance. i was so miserable up there that i moved back, but things didnt work out the same. i still kick myself for choosing money over love.

the worst breakup ive inflicted was, i was living with a guy (up north again, making money lol) and i got tired of living so far away from my family so i left while he was at work and made pack all of my belongings and ship them to me. he was so heartbroken. he ended up flying out to see me about 5am one night to try and make me come home. we're still friends though believe it or not, hanging out this weekend lol. it was pretty horrible of me... dunno what came over me, im very flighty, i just get the urge to leave... very gypsy.

[Cosmosxx]

My husband went back to America. We lived over here, (For all those who don't know, I'm Scottish) , I met someone else, and I couldn't ignore it, I was so horrible to him to make him leave, and I've regretted it a long time. He did leave me in a lot of debt though, and was abusive. I'm still with the guy I left him for, but still feel horrible about how it went down.

Ended up homeless, living on the street through this.....for a while.

[Little Red]

Okay, a few people have responded, so now I'll tell two of my stories.

I broke up with:Okay, so this is the story of how I ended my first ever relationship. It was that time of the year, when it start's to get colder. I was over at my Aunts that day to spend the night. My sister called me outside, so I came. When I went outside, there was one of the jerks that went to my school. I walked over to my sister looking suspicious. My sister finally broke the silence and said, "He want's to go out with you, say yes" I quickly broke into a run and she chased after me. I clung to the fence. I didn't want to go out with him. Finally, my family forced me to go out with him. After a while of going out, he started being rude and sort of jerky to me. I told him that if he was mean or rude to me one more time that it was over. Guess what he did. He was a jerk, it was over. A few months after I broke up with him, he was at the swingset withe me. I was right next to the metal bar that holds up the swingset. At that time, I was dating the guy that I'm about to tell his story of. I was swinging, and he kept on pushing me next to the bar. He suddenly pushed me with more force on the side. I don't really remember what happended after that it was all so fast. My glasses were flung off of my head, my leg hurt really bad, and all of my friends were by my side, asking if I was okay. I wasn't I couldn't walk on my left leg. After a day, I was fine, but ever since then, I have hated him even more, yet still had a little bit of feeling for him. Just a little.


He broke up with: Okay, here's another one. He's the guy that I was dating during the "accident". I was playing a game of hot or not with my friends. They said his name, I said hot. As it turned out, he was both of their cousins. They asked him out for me against my wishes. He said yes. He was very sweet, and I gave him his first kiss. It was just a week passed our year anniversary. The day after spring break. His friends told me that he was breaking up with me every week, so I didn't really think anything of it when they said it. Then, at lunch he confirmed it, and I cried all week. Only one good thing came out of the break up. The day after the break up was the day that we gave our speaches. I didn't prepare it or anything. I only knew all of the information that I was required to know. I got one of the highest grades in the class. The only reason that I didn't get stage fright is because I knew, that no matter how badly I messed up, I couldn't feel worse than I had the day before. I made my speech up as I went along. It flowed very smoothly, and I didn't stutter or anything. I gave it my all and sat down. I got an A. I wasn't scared, or anything.


Okay, so those are my stories. For those of you reading this that were thinking of righting their story, go ahead. For any of you not knowing what if feels like to be broken up with. You don't know of the thing that hurts the worst in life, you are lucky, yet unlucky. Thanks for reading.

[Little Red]

[Little Red]

Any more stories? Bump

[milon]

I dated a guy for five months...he was my best friend, he was basically the only person who I knew for certain wouldn't stab me in the back, he didn't judge me...I went through a lot with him. I ended up moving in with his best friend, who also had this crush on me and towards the end of the school year...it turned into our relationship not being about the friendship, but about the physical grazes in hallways which initiated promises...ehh, and then it was one of us straining to make the relationship work and the other...not so much. He started talking to a girl I partied with once...and started investing in her...he talked to her constantly, even when I was around...the killer about the whole thing was the many afternoons spent crying and him telling me his heart was divided and I just had no idea. He told me I was better than her in a lot of aspects, but I guess I just wasn't good ENOUGH. He cheated on me a few times...I cheated but was shitwrecked. He had no excuses. I got kicked out of his best friend's house...and everyone in the town blamed me for the blatantly obvious changes in his personality and attitude...which for me ended up where no one in Chipley approved of me any longer.

I haven't dated anyone since. Sort of scar tissue that just WILL NOT heal. fml.

[Little Red]

bump...anyone else? (it feels really good to share)

[vixxavisa]

First Boyfriend i had was alright, he was cute, fun and treated me like a queen. Then my family moved to what people in america would call another state but in england we moved two regions, and when he found out he just flipped he became rude, insulting and violent. So i'm glad i got out of that one.

Second boyfriend i had liked being with me on my own, but the moment someone walked by he would become cold and really nasty to me, so i left him. The next day i saw him eating this other girls face off.

Third boyfriend like the first treated me like royalty, but like the second was rude and insulting to me in front of his friends. we lasted about 5 months then i found out he had been cheating on me for the last 3/4 months, he must off found out that i knew because he brought his new missus right up next to me and started kissing her like there was no tommorrow.

My current boyfriend is what you would call average, he's not really brainy, or stunning, but he makes me laugh and is the sweetest boy you could ever meet. and he also has meet my parents and they approve of him, unlike the others which they never knew about.

[Little Red]

bump It's fun to share other's experiences, it lets you know when the danger zones are there etc. Too bad there isn't one for the whole "he's gunna break up with ya" one. You can never be 100 percent on that one.

[wolfgirl159357]

if i ever go out with someone and we break up you guys will be the first to know!

[Daisy Rabbit Mae]

I have some really sad ones. not all are break up but are like it.

Last Year:

My friend and I had been bffs then she started being mean to me and started whipping me with a long bendy eraser. I decided not to be her friend anymore so then I was really angry and she swore that if I told any1 her boyfriend's email that she'd tell the person i like that i like him. I told everybody really loud right in front of her. and she ran into the class room and told him. I was sooo pissed, i pretended it wasnt true. he asked me out. i said idk, i thought about it then told him yes. he said no thanx. i said y and he said bcuz im not good enough for him. I was SOO humiliated!

This Year:

I liked some1 again and i only told a few friends. (i wanted to keep it a secret till i was ready to let the whole school find out.) a few days later i found out this guy found out who i liked and told the guy! now whenever he sees me he runs. im still depressed.

This guy texted me asking me out. I said sure cuz i would have felt bad if i didn't (i didnt like him). a few hours later i couldn't stand being his girlfriend anymore so I dumped him over text messaging! I feel sooo bad! but he also said that he wuz jking. i still feel bad tho.

srry if i bored you...

-Daes