Stress Rant{|}:(

American · Joined: 07 Nov 2007 Posts: 473

Pinkie I wasn't telling you to stop saying 'stressed out'. I understand you may have stress put on you in life, but every time you get all dramatic or something you have to use the excuse of, "I am really stressed out right now." If your stressed out about something and you know maybe the tiniest little thing could set you off, then why post? Besides, stress, or anything else, really shouldn't be taken out on other people. It really doesn't help your reputation either.

Now about that contest, I read that whole post about you saying something to Chicken Man. I WILL come to your defense and say that you really didn't tell her that she couldn't win anything. But why tell them they are a newbie? I'm pretty sure they're well aware of that. If they want to help other newbies, then so what? They're just trying to help the community out. I really don't understand why you had to point them 'being a newbie' out and then making a big thing after Chilly told you to leave your comments to yourself. She was right, that comment was actually very rude.

PinkStar · Joined: 23 Nov 2007 Posts: 889

I was just a little confused! The person was 3 days old so I was confused. Chilly went overboard wit hher comment. You gave to admit that..

Cecelia · Joined: 16 Dec 2006 Posts: 1487

sorry PinkStar. My brain stops working on occasion.It just sounded like that was what you were insenuating (sp) when I read on that topic.I get where you're coming from now but it was misunderstood by several people. I just know that I wouldn't want somebody telling me that I am a newbie like it was a bad thing.That may not be what you meant but that was how it was interpreted.

PinkStar · Joined: 23 Nov 2007 Posts: 889

Yeah and I got soem rude messages Cecilia.. FROM OTHER PEOPLE :)They were rude...

greenpen · Joined: 03 Nov 2007 Posts: 1629

Pinkstar, if Cecilia is appologising then why don't you accept her appology instead of telling her how bad it was... She has admitted that she did something wrong and she has said sorry...
If someone had the courtisy to say sorry to me when they say they are wrong then the least i could do was accept the appology...
Just my opinion...

PinkStar · Joined: 23 Nov 2007 Posts: 889

Oh greeny this is the message you were taking about??? i was talking to her about a message someone SENT ME!! Oh!!! Thats what you thought.. I was never saying she said something to ME! LOL! I accept her apology.. I was just explaining more! Smile

I accept your apology ceclia! i hope you did not think I was saying that to you

Tanitsja · Joined: 28 Mar 2007 Posts: 1174

you should just forward such things to the admins pinkystar, they got guidelines generaly on how to deal with things, know their members and know how to best solve the situation Wink

means you also do not have to deal with it yourself...which would lessen the preasure on things and help make you less stressfull

PinkStar · Joined: 23 Nov 2007 Posts: 889

i did

Tanitsja · Joined: 28 Mar 2007 Posts: 1174

ok good...just trying to think on helpfull things that help me keep my sanity in the community i been at for almost 4 years now

the overall thing though i look back for 4 years is that through it all yeah there been some bad stuff, there even been some ugly stuff...but the positive things i goten out of the membership at the end of the day far outweighs the negative stuff...and thats what make it worth it

so i guess try to make a list of the positive things, so in bad stressfull moments you dont loose oversigth of the good things, its so easy to forget them in the moment, but if you relfected some on them they become easier to remember, and doing so generaly comes with a happy feel who makes the rainy day seem less grey

greenpen · Joined: 03 Nov 2007 Posts: 1629

PinkStar · Joined: 23 Nov 2007 Posts: 889

Your Welcome lol..

PinkStar · Joined: 23 Nov 2007 Posts: 889

Hmm any more words of wisdom for me?