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Des_and_Tay
Joined: 03 Jan 2007 Posts: 658
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Posted: Wed Feb 13, 2008 5:49 pm Post subject: Life Is Worth It [Please Read This Kat] |
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My heart is so far broken right now.
I'm sick and tired of people throwing their own lives away because of the world not being the perfect place to be.Life is worth living. Not living brings nothing but pain, hate, andger, and a sadness so deep it feels as if every part of your heart and soul has been ripped away with death.
Life is a silver stage. Sometimes you cross a dull patch. But, sooner or later, that spotlight will capture your performance and illuminate your part of that stage brighter than ever before.
Don't make other people suffer because you think your life is lonelier, sadder, and desperate than anyone else's.
Think of it like this:
Your best friend/family member/significant other is going through an incredibly hard time. Your offer a hand to them...but they do nothing but push you away.
You think you're alone? Think how horrible that person trying to get you help would feel if anything ever happened to you.I know from an extremely life-altering personal experience that what the person leaves in the wake of their self-inflicted tragedy is nothing but a family who loved them, friends who cared for them, and people who needed them.
Don't make them take time off their own lives to mourn for you.
& When someone reaches out a hand to you, when you think you have fallen so far down...
...just take it.
There is not one way that this could hurt. Right?
-Destinee |
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MCM_Raine
Joined: 10 Feb 2007 Posts: 837
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Posted: Thu Feb 14, 2008 5:31 pm Post subject: |
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I know what you mean Des ... thing is, I've been there. I know it sounds selfish and horrible, but you honestly don't think that you will affect anyone. I mean, when you care so little that you feel THAT low, you usually don't think about everyone else, or you think they don't care.
Thing is, that is NEVER TRUE. Someone cares, someone out there somewhere cares. Just because it wasn't the parent, boyfriend, girlfriend, best friend, loved pet, etc., you wanted to mean something to, doesn't mean someone else doesn't need/want you in their life.
Just thought I'd throw that out there. |
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Des_and_Tay
Joined: 03 Jan 2007 Posts: 658
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Posted: Thu Feb 14, 2008 5:47 pm Post subject: |
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I PMed you due to some content that may be inappropriate for younger users |
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PinkStar
Joined: 23 Nov 2007 Posts: 889
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Posted: Thu Feb 14, 2008 6:48 pm Post subject: |
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Please pm me that to I was going to post my opininons but I am to lazy |
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MCM_Raine
Joined: 10 Feb 2007 Posts: 837
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Posted: Thu Feb 14, 2008 7:41 pm Post subject: |
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Des_and_Tay wrote: | I PMed you due to some content that may be inappropriate for younger users |
Yeah no problem. *hides* This probably isn't the best thing to talk about, but I know there are at least 2 people on here that could use our help and I want to help them so bad. I hope that they realize that they aren't alone, some of us have gone through before what they are going through now and we are willing to help them SURVIVE through everything that happens. |
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Trinity
Joined: 28 Nov 2006 Posts: 1482
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Posted: Fri Feb 15, 2008 11:23 am Post subject: |
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But when you're feeling that low, you don't stop to register anything. Trust me, I know. If you were to tell me this a couple weeks ago I would have just blown it off and feel even lower. I know you're trying to help Kat, but sometimes when you say stuff like this it makes people feel worse. I'm not gonna say anymore on here because some of what I say may not be appropriate, but if you want me to explain further PM me. |
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MCM_Raine
Joined: 10 Feb 2007 Posts: 837
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Posted: Fri Feb 22, 2008 7:40 am Post subject: |
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Trinity wrote: | But when you're feeling that low, you don't stop to register anything. Trust me, I know. If you were to tell me this a couple weeks ago I would have just blown it off and feel even lower. I know you're trying to help Kat, but sometimes when you say stuff like this it makes people feel worse. I'm not gonna say anymore on here because some of what I say may not be appropriate, but if you want me to explain further PM me. |
I know what you mean ... I guess I was just kind of hoping that if everyone said it enough times that we would get through to her... |
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Tanitsja
Joined: 28 Mar 2007 Posts: 1174
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Posted: Fri Feb 22, 2008 9:03 pm Post subject: |
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saying something is better then saying nothing
+ that if you know someone in a situation like that, you often have a need yourself to talk to someone. |
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