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Sterling · Joined: 14 Aug 2007 Posts: 2790

I'm so sorry to hear/read about that Kat. My mom's bro died around this time, and she was practically disowned, also.

Can you not get out of the house?

milon · Joined: 12 Feb 2007 Posts: 3649

I live by myself.. I'm 22, so it's not that big of a deal or anything..

I'll take you up on that offer, Jinxx.

mash · Joined: 27 Feb 2007 Posts: 2683

By loved ones I meant close friends/boyfriend etc.
And don't forget, you have close friends on here. Even if they're not in the flesh.

Silversketches · Joined: 05 Dec 2006 Posts: 2270

Aww, Kat, I'm sorry to hear that. D:

When one of my guinea pigs died, I couldn't stop crying. I know how it feels, to want to die. Sometimes I feel like that when I have a REALLY hard swimming practise. I just want to curl up and die. XD Which is sorta sad, even I must admit...

Anyways [got a little off topic there, hehe] I'd say the best thing that got me over my guinea pig [and when one of my uncles died] was laughter...and not fighting it. :/ I guess as the days went by, in time, I just accepted that he [my uncle] and she [my guina pig] weren't coming back...but I'd never foget, oh no, their spirit is still here. I won't let my self, or anyone else for that matter, forget what a wonderful uncle and pet my beloved ones were. And never ever ever forget the memories. God, all the wonderful memories we created. I'm sure you have lots of stories bottled up inside with your bother & cat. And those good memories, when you didn't have stress, or a care, and you were free, those are the memories you'll never ever foget. I promise. ♥♥

odinsdottir · Joined: 12 Sep 2007 Posts: 2856

There is so much I would say and do to help you Kat, if only I could reach out and physically hug you. Instead I can only send cyber hugs, and provide an ear and a shoulder, encouragement and appreciation.

I hope you will find some comfort in your friends here, and not lose hope entirely. We care about you Kat.

To honour your Callie I have made a new variety of cat... the Purr Box Cat.... It isn't much, but I hope it HELPS.

odinsdottir

milon · Joined: 12 Feb 2007 Posts: 3649

Thank you all for your continued support. I feel like I'm whining too much though, and for that I apologize.

Silver, I'm sorry about your guinea pig ;.; I know the feeling. Yes, good memories.. good idea. And, the only problem is that I can't laugh or smile. I don't know how ... I mean, I smiled pretty broadly at my gift from Jinxx, and at odins Purr Box cat variation.

Odins, I can't thank you enough for what you've done. I'm so surprised, happy (momentarily - sadly) and overwhelmed at so many of your acts of kindness. Not only you, but Jinxx, and everyone else on SBF. It is almost like one closely knit family here.

It's nice. Really really nice. Anyway..

PinkStar · Joined: 23 Nov 2007 Posts: 889

I know hat it is like to lose someone and I am so sorry christmas sucked Sad

I really love to help and i wish i could do something anything even just punch you LOL, JK No I just kidding I want to hug you

Vitani · Joined: 28 Nov 2006 Posts: 6665

Oh Kat hun....There aren't enough words to properly express in the virtual medium the sorrow and empathy I feel for you right now...

Like the others, all I can offer you is a quiet ear to listen if you need to scream at someone, and a warm sturdy shoulder if you feel the weight of the world pressing you down...

Though we are only faceless typists, there are those here who love you for who you are, on the good days and the bad, and we will always be here to support one another in times of need...In the dark times when you feel utterly alone, hold to the thought that someone here is most likely sending you a kind thought at the exact same moment...

*gives a warm hug, and cookies shaped like paw-prints*

Anytime you need it Kat...You know where to find me...

ChocolateGal · Joined: 29 Jul 2007 Posts: 1868

Oh Kat you poor thing. I 've lost four fish during the past year and now i only have my sweetie Blackie to cuddel up to. I often feel alone but coming on here makes me feel alot better. *sings* All you need is love, love. alll you need is love. We're always here to comfort you in bad time. *hugs* you can PM me any time. You can be safe in my secrect lair Twisted Evil

with lots of cookies and free hugs Laughing

Queso · Joined: 11 Mar 2007 Posts: 3597

I don't think I could type anything that would make you feel better, I'm so so sorry. *hugs* If you need someone to talk to feel free to pm me. I'll be praying for you *hugs again*

shadow_spinner · Joined: 28 Nov 2006 Posts: 600

This is one of those times where you need to find the nearest horse's neck, dog's body, or some other friendly, faithful animal to cry into. I'm so sorry, nothing I can type could make this better. *hugs*

milon · Joined: 12 Feb 2007 Posts: 3649

I appreciate your support. It's helpful for me to know that someone cares.

Kind of disappointing that I can't even go to my mother (whom doesn't know about Zach yet..) because she's too high to be coherent enough to understand what I'm telling her.

-sigh-

Anyway.

That's a whole 'nother rant. I don't think it would be appropriate for SBFers.

Thanks for the endless amount of hugs, although I'm not a hugging type of person.. =\

Btd · Joined: 07 Nov 2007 Posts: 186

I understand where your coming from Kat66...I hope things start getting better for you.It's very hard and it won't ever heal but it will get better with time.