Not feeling very well-Might be leaving for good

ChocolateGal · Joined: 29 Jul 2007 Posts: 1868

I don't know if anyone will actually read this but at the moment I'm not feeling very accepted in life. I've been kicked out of a dance group at school, normal kids are swearing at me for no reason at school and we've got a really nasty principal and sometimes teacher. Now onto SBF, every post i've made at the moment no-one is responding to them Crying or Very sad

also i'm not feeling very good on here (like every one is half being nice but i feels like i'm not really liked anymore). I'm thinking about quitting SBF altogether but at the moment im just going to leave for a while and hope things get better, probably not Sad

ill go on in a couple of days and then make a final decision. Until then *using my last spark of humor* Always look on the bright side of life do da do do do da...

Vitani · Joined: 28 Nov 2006 Posts: 6665

Awww hun, I'm sorry you feel that way. Life can get to the best of us at times, so don't feel as if your all alone...Everyone struggles with their own issues, and deals with things in their own way. Sometimes taking a step back to reasess a situation can really help...Taking a few days off to think about things will help prevent you from making a rash choice...

Your welcome to PM me any time you want to talk about things - My 'ears' are always open, and my shoulder is always there for those who need it. And cookies never hurt anybody either Very Happy

*offers festive treats*

Chef33 · Joined: 15 Jul 2007 Posts: 577

I'm sorry you feel that way aswel no one should Sad

I would like to tell you that i know how you feel but everyone is different. Life has twist and turns that may be unexpected but we just have to stick at it. My moral is 'give as good as you get' but this is your post so i am another convo. speaking of convos whenever i am on i am willing to chat and listen to anyone and anything you could think of me as an agony aunt. Very Happy

As i said if you want to talk anytime that i am on or even if i am not i shall mail back and listen to what you have to say or even if you are trying to find an answer, i shall always try to help no matter what. Very Happy

Chef33

Galen · Joined: 24 Mar 2007 Posts: 770

It is always tough being the odd one out as school. As for people not responding to you here, remember, it is a busy time of year for a lot of people. They probably just aren't visiting SBF as often, and that is why you don't see many replies to your comments. People do care, even when it meems that no one does.

odinsdottir · Joined: 12 Sep 2007 Posts: 2856

*HUGZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ* Chockie.... *sings with her*

"Always look on the bright side of life.. dodo dodo dodododododo....."

Life is too full of times like these.... when all seems to conspire to make life impossible to bear. But we do get through them. All situations like this are a time of maturation, of growing up..... and growing up is more often painful than not.

Persevere Chockie..... but take a step back.... breathe deep..... meditate if you know how.... but most of all, shrug of the negativity you feel..... then come back with a fresh viewpoint.....

You're a part of what makes SBF special Chockie... please never think otherwise.... Please stay then... even if you take a break.

odinsdottir........ *singing again*

Queso · Joined: 11 Mar 2007 Posts: 3597

*grabbs ankles* NOOOOO!! You can't leave!!!!! I forbid it!

Feel free to send me a pm Choco, I'm always here for you :] I would be so sad if you left... Please don't leave *puppy dog eyes*

I hope life starts looking up for you no matter what you choose to do *big hug*

Angelicious · Joined: 31 Mar 2007 Posts: 4801

I know what you mean Sad

No one reads my threads - if they do, they don't read them fully and disregard what it actually says. I help people as often as possible, but it leads to nothing. My real life stinks at the moment. I thought about leaving SBF too, a while back, until I realized it wouldn't solve anything. Appreciated or not, liked or not, SBF is an amazing place. Leaving the one... "Sanctuary" I had would have only made it worse.
I don't know if it's the same in your case or not. Listen to Vitani and odinsdottir - take a few days off, then come back. And always remember that you are loved here, and that you are part of what makes SBF the great place that it is for so many people.
When life throws you lemons, make chocolate milk. Then, I guarantee it, everyone will pay attention to you again Very Happy

And just in time for the holidays, too!

ChocolateGal · Joined: 29 Jul 2007 Posts: 1868

*makes chocolate milk* Thanks guys, you've helped me alot and now a dont think ill go. But now to another topic has Capture the Flag been kicked out of the games corner!! It's really bad, that was my first ever game i played in SBF Crying or Very sad

But anyway, ive found my humour now (everyone always to check behind the fridge) hehehe Laughing

and i feel great cause i've only got one week of school left and then 6 weeks of hollies (holidays)

Leopardstorm · Joined: 05 Jan 2007 Posts: 4326

Chocolate you are foolish buddy really to think you aren't loved on here We LOVE you!!!! *hugs* I am glad you are staying Very Happy

ChocolateGal · Joined: 29 Jul 2007 Posts: 1868

yea im really glad im staying too Wink

odinsdottir · Joined: 12 Sep 2007 Posts: 2856

*chants*

Chockie Chockie Chockie

HUGZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZz Chockie

odinsdottir

Queso · Joined: 11 Mar 2007 Posts: 3597

Yaay!! I was so worried you were going to leave! *huggzzzz*

Don't you ever scare me like that again! I'm so glad your staying Very Happy

ChocolateGal · Joined: 29 Jul 2007 Posts: 1868

YAY!! it's the holidays!!!!!!!!!!!! i'm sooooooo happy cause now we can swim in my dam!!!!!! Whoopy

PinkStar · Joined: 23 Nov 2007 Posts: 889

I will stay if you do Smile

ChocolateGal · Joined: 29 Jul 2007 Posts: 1868

great im staying!!!!!!!!